Must and Should

Took me a long time to try blogging again.

I think it is time already. 

I need this as braindump. 

Thoughts today:

I've been watching a series of youtube vlogs by a certain female celebrity for two days in a row. In one video she was talking with her friends about maturing and growing wiser. There was something she said that I cannot forget, sabi nya

' You're not growing when you're not losing friends. Some people are just seasonal. Kahit sa Bible nakasulat na lahat may season. So pag meron kang friends noon, and you're not close to them na, don't fret. Wag mo nang ipilit. Kasi meaning tapos na ang season nla in your life. Tapos na ang purpose nla sa buhay mo.'

Hearing it that way, it made me think of those people who used to be very special to me. People who I used to laugh with, share secrets and create memories with. People who once upon a time were considered confidantes,friends,soulsiblings. Yet whom I had not have a decent conversation for a long time now, either because of  a misunderstanding or because the  lack of communication had been so long it made things awkward already. 

Personally, I used to care about and even cry over the snobbing, the cold shoulder treatment etc.. You honestly cant help it. Esp when the person was someone you had been through some of your lows and shared some life's milestones with. So if I would follow the thought of that celebrity, cguro nga I am wiser na emotionally.   Because at this point in my life, I had been able to accept that not all I met in life were meant to stay..

Some stayed for a little longer. But some were just passersby. Some came to break me. Some to mend me. All became part of my life for and with a different purpose. All came on their own 'season'. 

So from an older soul to you, I hope you'd value all the relationship you had created at the moment. Cherish everything. But don't be fooled. 

Each of us has a path to take.Life itself is a journey. Not all who's with you now will be with you until the end. 

If that happens, continue moving forward..a step after another, a day at a time. . remember, they also have their own path to travel. As for you both, your season has ended.  The sooner you'd accept that, the better. 🙂

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